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Thursday 18 April 2013

I SEE A GUMMY BEAR WITH WINGS, DOCTOR


The other day my husband and I read the same email. I came away from it thinking it had a negative slant (I’ve discussed before the problems with email and their lack of tone) and wasn’t very happy with it. He on the other hand did not take it that way and when he read it back to me, I could see how he thought it was more positive than I did. (Usually he's the more conspiratorially driven in our household so this was new territory for us!)And that right there is why I find interpretation so fascinating. Because it is just that: a subjective interpretation by the interpreter, if you will.  

Now before I waffle on – as you know I can – I will specify that there are plenty of things that are not open to interpretation. The sky is blue (although someone who is colorblind or on LSD may beg to differ); two plus two is four; Hitler was a maniacal murderer (then again, I’m scared to say that may be open to interpretation by some). You get the idea. Fact is fact and most of the time there is no shade of grey when it comes to facts; unless they are spouted by a media outlet or a politician and then of course fact becomes…well an interpretation of the truth. See how fun this can be?

Anyway, the part I find so fascinating about interpretation is that when you look at many things in life (like the ink blot above: I see a Gummy Bear with wings; you?), those things can turn into gray matter purely based on how many different ways they can be interpreted. And all these different angles, if you will, are based on the viewers vantage point, their baggage, their hopes, dreams, how much coffee they drank that morning. You get the idea. In essence, our interpretation of things says something about who we are. If someone reads something and wants it to be positive, it’s going to be. And conversely, if they see a rust coloured lining in everything, bet your bottom dollar they’ll find that too.

I’m by nature a bit jaded. Hopeful, but jaded. It’s a funny, tedious mix I assure you. So most things I read or watch, I second guess, or think that somewhere deep down there may be an agenda. I know, painful right? The King often helps remedy this by being exactly what he seems. Gotta love children and their transparency. I suppose this is where my struggle with (organized) religion has always come in. Take the Bible for instance. Now there is a gigantic book that for most is open to interpretation. I mean you just have to read the thing to know that it was intended to be a guide and not an exact blueprint (my opinion of course). But there is a sect of Christianity of course that believes that the Bible should be taken word for literal word. Now, my problem is not with them per se (although innately I am not designed to think this way about anything); my problem is with the dichotomy of the two interpretations. Let’s be frank, it’s the size of the Atlantic Ocean and both interpretations cannot be right, can they?

So that’s when interpretation becomes subjective and we happily leave it up to the individual. You see things your way; I’ll see them mine. And fact...well, that lies somewhere in the absurd middle.

Life, never fails to amuse. 


Tuesday 16 April 2013

HOPE UPON HOPE


This weekend’s news has left a very bad taste in my mouth, to put it mildly. Yet another bombing; yet another tragic atrocity that proves that we as humans have an innate anger and bestiality that I will never understand. And of course the media as per usual is pouring blood in the water to stir things up to a shark-infested frenzy. In fact, I cannot even turn CNN on anymore for fear of seeing the detritus of the bombing as I’m eating my morning breakfast with the King. Don’t get me wrong, I’m in full support of news reportage, but anyone that reads this blog knows how I view the sensationalistic slant of the media these days (or for the last two decades!). Do I feel for the eight year old and his family who were victims of this senseless crime? More than words can say. Do I think it’s appropriate to splash his face all over the Internet and print media from here to China? No, I’d like to think we could show more reserve than that and show his family some respect.

The other baffling thing about this weekend’s events – aside from how and why they happened in the first place – is this eternal question after every attack of this nature to qualify if it’s indeed a ‘terrorist’ attack (thank you S.A for bringing this to attention on FB). Seriously, is this what concerns us most about what has happened this past weekend? The label of it? By definition a terrorist is someone who uses violence for political aims. So I’d say blowing up hundreds of innocent civilians after a marathon is not only using violence for a political aim, but it’s screaming to the world, ‘see me, hear me, I want to bring about mass destruction in the name of something.’ And isn’t any violent act terrorizing someone? 

I get it, we as society need someone to blame; we need to label that party that claims responsibility (or doesn't, which we like even better cause then the hunt begins) and go after them with a vengeance. We need to write slogans about bringing them down and plaster it across every news bulletin. We NEED an enemy. It is apparently what we thrive upon these days (or ever since the Cold War), someone to hate, someone to burn in effigy, someone to wear the mask of the bogey man late at night. And these days it's not that hard to find one.

However, for me it never changes. That bogeyman is man. Plain and simple. No matter what party or fundamentalist group he (or she) belongs to, he is a human steeped in anger and hell bent on mass destruction. He has lost the ability to function in the real world of reason and rationality. He has killed any ounce of compassion that may have lived within him (or had it killed); he has gone to war on his fellow man (and child) and deemed this necessary in the name of politics and purpose. For once again, you don’t do something like this if you aren’t trying to say something. Not in these times.

So for those that lost their lives over the weekend, I mourn for you. I truly do. I mourn for the injured and the people that love you. More importantly, I mourn for all of us (especially you my King) that things like this seem to be happening more and more. And I pray that one day we return to a society where a child can simply go see his father crossing the finish line without losing his life.

(and yes, tomorrow I hope to be a bit more hopeful)



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